Don't be afraid to dream because hopes are dreams best friend
Don't be afraid to dream because hopes are dreams best friend
Cherished Whispers is a charitable organization dedicated to supporting parents who have experienced the loss of a baby during pregnancy, birth, or shortly after. We provide memory boxes to the Medway Maritime Hospital in Gillingham Kent offering a compassionate way for grieving families to cherish and remember their precious little ones.
This service is available to parents that have either received a memory box from us or live/lived in Kent at the time of their loss.
Remembering the Anniversary of your loss is a very personal thing and not everyone would want this service.
If you would like to receive a card, please message Cheryl on our FB page with the following details:
Birthday or Angelversary
Baby or Babies name/s
Date of birth or the date you identify with your loss.
Parent’s name/names
Your full postal address and we will do the rest.
We have been lucky enough to find some very talented and kind hearted ladies who love crafting and make some beautiful cards
for us so when we receive them we personalise the inside leaf for the individual babies and send them out.
We are always looking for others who might be able to supply cards for us however we are aware that some may not want to do this and we fully understand.
For anyone who would like to supply us with some of their cards please contact us for more details.
In April 2011, we attended a charity event which included a balloon release. Each balloon had a tag with the name of a lost baby/child tied to it. We even had balloons to represent our own losses. This had quite an emotional effect on everyone present.
Deciding that we would provide Memory Boxes to Medway Maritime Hospital was the first of many decisions to be made, finding suppliers of materials and quickly learning how to run a charity! Not least, a way to fund it all. Were we in for a shock! I applied for a credit card and promptly spent in excess of £1,500.00. The spending continued and used up all of our spare time trying to get things going. We played with many names, but none seemed right, then, suddenly one of us said “Cherished” and the other said “Whispers”. From here on it just all ‘fell’ into place! We registered with Companies House as we wanted to add some respectability/stability to Cherished Whispers whilst working on becoming a Registered UK Charity.
In 2013 we gained our UK registration
which is 1153479.
We have also managed to recruit some lovely people along the way as Trustees and support for us has been incredible. We even have an accountant who has offered his services free of charge for all these years, Many thanks to Steve.
Our main Cherished Whispers page is for parents & supporters alike, with news, events and general chat.
We then have the first of two secret pages so no matter what you post you can be sure that it is a safe environment and no one outside the group will see.
This is a secret page where Parents can talk to others that share this common ground. On there you can post pictures, poems, music and above all else make friends, however the only way to join this very private page is through our admin page which is called Cher Whisp.
So send a friend request to Cher then post on the main CW page that you would like to join the Whisper Page and we will do the rest. (We do not wish to offend anyone but we may ask a few details of your loss to ensure other Parents/Families privacy, we hope you will understand the need for this)
This page is for Grandparent's where they can talk and post about the loss of their Grandchild / Grandchildren without fear of upsetting their child with their thoughts and feelings.
If you are a grandparent and would like to join this group all you need to do is join the main Cherished Whispers Page and post that you would like to join and a member of our team will be happy to help.
When people mention super heroes you automatically think batman, superman, wonder woman & such like characters. Personally I think about all the people that help families like mine deal with the loss of their children, even when it brings back painful memories of their own experiences. Cherished Whispers is full to the brim with heroes. I am forever grateful to Cherished Whispers as if it wasn't for them we would have left that hospital with more regrets than we already had. Thank you Cheryl and the team, you are one in a million. X
Cherished Whispers was a big help in helping me grieve for our first son. Everyone within the Group understands what you are going through, it’s like a very special family. Someone is ALWAYS there to listen and have done an amazing job in setting up Cherished Whispers.
It will be a year in March 2013 since we lost our angel Drew and without all of you it would have been a very very hard place to be. As you send your love to everyone that comes on here and we all know how each other feels. I think of you all as very good friend’s thank you for being here for us xxxxxxx
My husband and I lost our daughter in February 2012 and it is truly the hardest thing we have ever been through. After losing our angel we were given a special memory box containing precious bits for our baby. I joined the Cherished Whispers site 4 months after losing our angel and then joined the Whisper Page for parents only where they can go and talk freely about the loss of a baby. At this point in time I was not dealing with things very well and felt that I couldn't turn to my husband as he never wanted to talk about our angel or how he was feeling about what we had been through. So when I posted for the first time on the Whisper page I was so overwhelmed by the comfort and support for other grieving parents it helped me big time. Even now if I post on the Whisper page there is always someone to comfort you or give advice if needed. I am so very grateful that this charity/page was invented, as I feel it has made me a stronger person after such heartbreak. I never thought I would be able to cope but having this charity/page in my life, I truly have.
Cherished whispers has made the loss of our baby so much more bearable, and I don't know how I would have managed without the support of Cherished Whispers and all the other angel parents. No matter how I feel, I know they will always understand. The difference they have made is truly amazing. I can talk about Callum, and unlike alot of other people they undersand that I am a mum to three beautiful boys and not two. With them my angel is never forgotten or tiptoed around. He is always as much my baby as the others. They are amazing people and truly are angels walking amongst us. xxxx
Everything about Cherished Whispers is completely voluntary and 100% of all donations go toward our Memory Boxes.
Your support and contributions will enable us to continue providing our beautiful memory boxes and help support bereaved parents who come to Medway Maritime Hospital.
Cherished Whispers supply parents with the tools to make some memories after such a devastating and profound loss by the giving of a memory box and to help support them in anyway we can.
This maybe just a listening ear or a shoulder to lean on but we will be there to help or signpost them to the best help possible.
Our boxes are wooden and will hopefully endure time and give some comfort small comfort to parents after the loss of their baby.
We supply around 100 to 130 boxes per year f and each box can cost up to £50, per box, or losses from 12 weeks onward. and
For under 12 week losses we will provide a card and a small charm, This doesn't seem very much but in the early weeks it is a little something to mark the loss of their baby/babies.
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Founder/Treasurer
This is a subject that has always been very close to my heart as all of the women in my family for the last 4 generations (including myself) have suffered the loss of at least one baby either to miscarriage, pre-term, stillbirth or an accident at birth, sadly in 2011 my daughter and her husband became the 5th generation suffering the loss of 2 pregnancies due to miscarriage and as you can imagine the grief that I felt as a grandparent to be was so profound that I wanted to try to make a tiny difference for other Parents who have to bear this life changing episode in their lives.
Secretary
Hello my name is Alice and after my darling girl Nellie was born sleeping on the 11th June 2017 Cherished Whispers helped me immensely.
This charity has helped me through the toughest times from day one.
I am now privileged to become part of the team and look forward to speaking with you all.
Fundraising & Events Officer
After the loss of my son one of my first visitors was a lady from Cherished Whispers. It was very comforting to know that I wasn’t on my own & that there was support & comfort out there if I needed them.
I would like to help other families receive the same help & support that I got. I found the death of my baby boy a life changing event & it gave me a lot of reassurance at the time that it would be possible to feel happiness & joy again.
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